When I went off to summer camp for the first time. And when I took my book out of my suitcase, the counselor came up to me with a concerned expression on her face and she said we should all work very hard to be outgoing.And so I put my books away, and put them under my bed.
All the times that I got the message that somehow my quiet and introverted style of being was not necessarily the right way to go, that I should be trying to pass as more of an extrovert. And I always sensed deep down that this was wrong and that introverts were pretty excellent just as they were.
Now this is what many introverts do, and it's our loss for sure, Because when it comes to creativity , we need introverts doing what they do best. A third to a half of the population are introverts -- a third to a half. So that's one out of every two or three people you know. So even if you're an extrovert yourself, I'm talking about your coworkers and your feiends and your relative and the person sitting next to you right now -- all of them subject to this bias that is pretty deep and real in our society. We all internalize it from a very early age without even having a language for what we're doing.
Now in fact, some of our leaders in history have been introverts.Steve Wozniak invented the first Apple computer sitting alone in his cubicle in Hewlett-Packard where he was working at the time. And he says that he never would have become such an expert in the first place had he not been too introverted to leave the house when he was growing up.
Now if all this is true, then why are we getting it so wrong? And why are we making these introverts feel so guilty about wanting to just go off by themselves some of the time?
So I wish you the best of all possible journeys and the courage to speak softly.
当我第一次把书从行李箱中拿出来的时候 我们的顾问满脸忧虑的向我走了过来 接着她重复了关于“露营精神”的要点 并且说我们都应当努力 去变得外向些.于是我放好我的书 放回了属于它们的行李箱中
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每当我感觉到这样的时候 它告诉我出于某种原因，我的宁静和内向的风格 并不是正确道路上的必需品 我应该更多地尝试一个外向者的角色 而在我内心深处感觉得到，这是错误的 内向的人们都是非常优秀的.
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这就是很多内向的人正在做的事情 这当然是我们的损失 因为当涉及创造和领导的时候 我们需要内向的人做到最好 三分之一到二分之一的人都是内向的-- 三分之一到二分之一 你要知道这可意味着每两到三个人中就有一个内向的 所以即使你自己是一个外向的人 我正在说你的同事 和你的配偶和你的孩子 还有现在正坐在你旁边的那个家伙-- 他们都要屈从于这样的偏见 一种在我们的社会中已经扎根的现实偏见 我们从很小的时候就把它藏在内心最深处 甚至都不说几句话，关于我们正在做的事情
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事实上，历史上一些有改革能力的领袖都是内向的人 史蒂夫·沃兹尼亚克发明了第一台苹果电脑 一个人独自坐在他的机柜旁 在他当时工作的惠普公司 并且他说他永远不会在那方面成为一号专家 但他还没因太内向到要离开那里 那个他成长起来的地方
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如果说现在这一切都是真的 那么为什么我们还得到这样错误的结论？ 为什么我们要让这些内向的人觉得那么愧疚 对于他们只是想要离开，一个人独处一段时间的事实？
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所以对于你们即将走上的所有旅程，我都给予你们我最美好的祝愿 还有温柔地说话的勇气
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